The Search for the Non-Existent: A Comically Futile Journey to Find the Purpose of Life

Ah, the age-old question of the purpose of life. What a quaint, naive notion that there could be a grand plan or divine reason behind our existence. Pardon me while I stifle a laugh.

The idea that there is a purpose to life is nothing more than a fanciful notion perpetuated by those who can’t handle the reality of the universe. The truth is, there is no purpose to life. No grand plan, no ultimate goal. We are merely biological organisms that happen to exist on a tiny speck of rock hurtling through the vast emptiness of space. And when our time on this earth is up, we will simply cease to exist, our brief lives forgotten in the grand scheme of things.

The notion of purpose is nothing more than a human construct, an attempt to give meaning to our otherwise meaningless existence. People cling to this idea of purpose, thinking that it gives their lives significance, but in reality, it’s nothing more than a coping mechanism.

Religion offers the promise of an afterlife, where we will finally fulfill our purpose, but let’s be real, that’s just a fairytale to make us feel better about the inevitable fact of our own mortality. Science offers the hope of making a tangible impact on the world, but again, what does it matter in the grand scheme of things? The universe will continue on, long after we’re gone, with or without our contributions.

Why it’s better to live a life without purpose?

Adopting the idea that the concept of purpose is a fallacy can have several advantages, including:

Increased freedom: By recognizing that life has no inherent meaning or purpose, one can be freed from the constraints of societal expectations. This can lead to a sense of liberation and the ability to live life on one’s own terms. This doesn’t mean you don’t set goals for yourself - you can be less scared of failure.

Reduced stress and anxiety: The pursuit of purpose can be a source of stress and anxiety, especially if one feels that they are not living up to their potential or achieving their goals. By embracing the idea that life is ultimately meaningless, one can let go of these pressures.

Greater appreciation for the present moment: When life is seen as having no ultimate purpose, it can increase one’s appreciation for the simple joys and experiences of each day. This can lead to a greater sense of contentment and fulfillment, as one focuses on enjoying life as it unfolds, rather than striving for an abstract sense of purpose.

Encouragement of creativity and self-expression: The idea that life is meaningless can be liberating, allowing individuals to freely explore their passions and interests without the pressure of needing to fulfill some larger purpose. This can lead to greater creativity, self-expression, and personal growth.

The idea of purpose is a fallacy, a false notion that distracts us from the cold, hard truth that life is ultimately meaningless. So go ahead and chase your passions, achieve your goals, make a difference in the world, but understand that it all means nothing in the grand scheme of things.

The purpose of life is a myth, a comforting illusion to help us make sense of the senseless. Don’t waste your time searching for meaning, because in the end, it simply doesn’t exist. Enjoy the ride, because that’s all it is, a ride. And when it’s over, it’s over.

If the idea of a grand purpose or meaning to life is a fallacy, you can still strive for contentment and happiness. This is something I try to “optimise” for. I try to:

Focus on the present moment: Try to stay in the present moment and appreciate what you have right now. This can help to reduce anxiety and increase feelings of contentment. This doesn’t mean that you cannot analyse the past or prepare for the future.

Cultivate relationships: Strong relationships with family and friends can provide a sense of belonging and contentment. Make an effort to stay connected with the people who matter most to you.

Pursue your passions: Engage in activities that bring joy and fulfillment. For me this includes travel, building businesses (especially scaling teams), programming, trying to help people (and businesses) and saving money - if it wasn’t for my passion for technology, I would have been a finance geek.

Practice gratitude: Take time each day to reflect on the things that you are thankful for. Focusing on what you have, rather than what you lack, can increase feelings of overall contentment.

Take care of yourself: Self-care is important for both physical and mental well-being. Make sure you get enough sleep, eat a healthy diet, and engage in regular exercise.

Give back: Helping others can provide a sense of fulfillment. Volunteer your time, donate to a cause you believe in, or simply be there for a friend in need.

Many philosophers throughout history have explored the idea that the concept of purpose is a fallacy and that life is ultimately meaningless. Epicurus, the famous Greek philosopher, argued that pleasure and a lack of pain were the ultimate goals of human existence. He believed that a life without pain and suffering was the most fulfilling, regardless of whether it had a larger purpose or meaning. Nietzsche famously declared that “God is dead,” meaning that the traditional sources of meaning and purpose in life, such as religion, were no longer valid or relevant. Sartre, the French existentialist philosopher, argued that existence precedes essence - meaning that there is no inherent purpose or meaning to life, and that it is up to individuals to create their own meaning. Camus famously wrote in “The Myth of Sisyphus” that “The struggle itself toward the heights is enough to fill a man’s heart”. It’s the journey that matters!

The purpose of life may be elusive, but finding contentment is as simple as putting on your comfy pants, grabbing a bowl of your favorite snacks, and binge-watching cat videos on YouTube. Or not. Either way, it’s all up to you and your personal preferences, so go ahead and make the most of this meaningless journey we call life. And if all else fails, remember: laughter is the best medicine… or so they say. Who knows what they’re talking about anyway? The point is, just have fun and try not to take it all too seriously!